Do this. Go to craigslist.org for your city, and click on "men seeking men." Draw a line down the middle of a piece of paper. Go down the ads and put a tally mark on one side for every guy that wants to suck, get fucked, get pissed on, be daddy's little boy. The other side of the paper is reserved for the fuckers, pissers, and oral tops. Notice anything? With all the dedicated bottoms running around some cities (I'm looking at you Boise) it's a wonder anybody gets fucked at all.
It's counterintuitive. Afterall, getting fucked hurts. And spend enough time on your knees sucking cock and you're bound to get a wad of foul tasting, and quite possibly diseased, goo in your mouth sooner or later. Popular culture tells us that weak guys get fucked in prison, when the truth is everyone is sitting around in orange jumpsuits picking straws, and it’s the loser that has to stick it in. Christian teaching tells us to do onto our neighbor as we would have him do onto us. Who says gay men aren't going to heaven?
You might want to stop reading now. This essay is dangerous. Contemplate the greater desirability of submissive sex too long, and you're sure to lose your hard-on. Our eroticism is built on a lie-- a lie I intend to expose. It's the false belief that the guy standing up with his cock in our mouths is receiving the service, and not us(!), that gets us hot. We need so badly to be givers. Some of us feel absolutely compelled, driven to give. But we'll be damned if we don't get to tell you exactly what the gift is, and just how much you're going to enjoy it. "You're gonna shove your cock up my butt, and you're gonna love it bitch!" What queen hasn't screamed these words to his lover? Ok, it's not true. This is, in fact, precisely what we don't say. But beneath all the sexual theatre, its exactly what we feel. Exactly.
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